Have you noticed how we humans tend to dissect ourselves and put the different parts in clearly labeled boxes? Let me try to explain further…..We often define ourselves by our jobs, religion, position in life etc.
This struck me a couple of days ago whilst running a self awareness & self development workshop. Each person was asked to tell me a little bit about ‘him/herself.’ As each one spoke it struck me, most of us define ourself by things, people & situations around us. For example; I’m a teacher, a mother, husband or wife. I’m a Christian or I work in a high ranking job. But nobody spoke about his or herself as a person. So I set the following exercise:
You’re given weeks to live. Already you’re becoming dependent on those around you for feeding, bathing etc. Your job has gone now & although you’re missed, you’ve been replaced already. All the clothes you own, suits, dresses, shoes etc will soon all belong to someone else maybe resold through the charity shop. It’s the same with your husband or wife, they’ll one day share their life with another but right now they’re responsible for your comfort and care. Deep down in your heart, you know your beautiful children & grandchildren will always remember you through photos, but may very well call someone else mum & grandma in the future. Everything you own, your life savings, the world you thought you knew & the dreams you had, are all relative now as you lay confined to your bed.
All the external things that once defined you have pretty much gone. Who are you?
What are your thoughts?
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Day 14 of the 17 Days in Colour and we’re going on to explore the colour black.
Black is known as an esoteric and highly magickal colour. Governed by the Earth element, black is actually quite grounding but mostly associated with darker aspects of life. In fact, black is one of the most misunderstood colour across the spectrum. It’s often associated with negativity, death, witchcraft and evil spirits. Whilst it’s true black is connected with deities of the underworld, it’s also extremely powerful in repelling & banishing evil and negativity. Black is an amazing protector colour, and if you’re feeling vulnerable in terms of health, home life or most areas of life, wearing black is an excelling way of protecting the spirit. Wearing black, helps us break free from bad habits/addictions, assists deep meditation & opens up deep unconscious levels.
If black is your favourite colour you’re most likely a deep analytical person who is hesitant to accept before checking things out. You hold deep spiritual beliefs, but more on the basis of realism – when you’ve gone you’ve gone. Black is really not associated with any one chakra but is neutral in its power.
A person who has an aversion to black may have fear for the unknown, or fear for the abuse of power. Desires to become free from all kinds of dependency, blockages, hindrances; to throw off shackles.